
Choose for the person, not the category
Curiosity
A class, tour, tasting, performance, or place connected to an existing interest.
Connection
Time together with a date range and shared responsibility for scheduling.
Relief
Childcare, home help, meals, transportation, or a task they keep postponing.

Include the practical details
- Who is included
- What costs are covered
- A realistic date or date range
- Transportation and accessibility
- Expiration or cancellation terms
- What happens if plans change

Give something to open
Invitation
Write why you chose the experience and what you hope to share.
Clue
Include one small object, ingredient, map, photograph, or book connected to it.
Next action
Name who will schedule it and by when.

